Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

未婚夫的用途

[絕對是個自尋短見的post]



到目前為止, 我覺得bubu作為一個未婚夫, 最大的用途是...



簽咭找數

[bubu:你欠揍呀你...]



每次見他簽下「萬萬聲」的帳單, 都覺得心痛又好笑~

心痛是又要bubu一下子就花掉辛辛苦苦儲來的$$ 

但看見他「放血」的慘樣又覺得好好笑 ^O^



簽了單, 會有很多cash dollar, 有時買東西扣了cash dollar後, 一毫子都不用付, 又會覺得好興奮! (白痴二人組...都忘了之前有多慘烈才有這少少的cash dollar...)






好啦, 回正題

大家都很清楚, 一個正常的fiance對婚禮的投入度會有多大...



至於我家那個嘛...屬於「動口不動手型」, 很多前期的工作, 不論quotation或是enquiry, 都一律叫我去做, 初時我還真的很抗拒, 不過後來都慢慢接受了, 因為男人就是天生不喜歡問!



於是今晚我在想, 總要找點事給bubu負責...



...婚禮歌曲應該OK吧? 

平常都是他聽得比我多, 而且我有「旋律 / 歌詞 / 歌名配對障礙症」, 多好聽的曲多美的詞, 轉個頭就忘得一乾二淨... 



我︰不如你開始揀下婚禮用既歌丫?

bubu︰下?! 唔駛咁早呀嘛?

我︰咁呢D唔駛靠人呀嘛...早D做, 唔駛之後咁忙嘛~

bubu︰咁呀...咁全部陳奕迅啦!

我︰?!#@&!!



全部陳奕迅?! 別耍我吧...





找來martha stewart的"Groom 101"來看看...





A Groom's Tasks
These are the groom's traditional responsibilities, but each couple should determine appropriate additions and omissions.


The Guest List: The groom is responsible for compiling his side of the guest list. It is best for the groom to make a longer list first and then trim it later with the bride to work within the budget.


Wedding Bands: Choosing the wedding bands is something the bride and groom should do together. Wedding bands can be matching or have a matching engraving. Some couples have their initials engraved with the wedding date inside the ring, while others choose a phrase from a favorite poem.


Marriage License and Blood Test: The groom is traditionally responsible for making the appointment to get the marriage license, arranging for the blood test (if required), and calling the marriage-license bureau of the local government where the marriage will take place to find out what must be done and how far in advance.


Transportation: The groom is responsible for arranging transportation to and from the ceremony and away from the reception. This search should begin at least four months before the wedding. All contracts should state the cost, length of service, and the driver's attire.


Toasts: The groom often gives a toast toward the end of the rehearsal dinner in response to the best man's toast. It is customary for the groom to express his good fortune at marrying his bride, as well as thank his parents, in-laws, and the guests for coming.


Wedding Night Accommodations: If the couple is not leaving directly after the wedding for their honeymoon, the groom should arrange for accommodations for the wedding night.


Honeymoon: Today, couples usually decide together where to go for the honeymoon, but tradition still makes the groom responsible for much of the planning. The groom then has the opportunity to work in some surprises, such as flight upgrades or special excursions and activities.


 


除了wedding band (這個倒是他很早就主動提議先做!), 其他的...umm...我還是自己制定一個適合他的好了...


後記︰bubu說要澄清一下, 他是有幫上忙的...我認真的在想, 他有時也會自己去刨esdlife, 發現筍野會第一時間告訴我, 拍婚照前也會狂找reference photos...但都只是看啦, 最後還是我clip下來...


Thursday, June 11, 2009

變種宅女

謝過BLOG的意見s, 我決定先向MUA進發, 全力搜集資料~

才三數天, 我開始覺得有點不對勁...

  • 不停看各大MUA的job reference, 但說不出哪個好哪個不好, 喜歡哪個不喜歡哪個...
  • 對著 WG & EG 亦如是, 每一條gown都覺得「OK丫」
  • (最最最不妥的地方) 明明是在research化妝&髮型reference, 不經不覺會變成research wedding monogram的素材, 腦袋在brainstorm DIY design, 手在畫 bride & groom icons...

基於以上發現, 忽然覺得自己有點像個 [宅女]。




「宅女」泛指癡迷於動漫、電玩、書籍、網絡名人等的女性。她們大都是20至30歲女性,特徵包括公餘喜歡在家獨自看漫畫、飲啤酒、假日好睡。典型的「宅女」依賴網絡,做什麼都想上網,長時間不能用電腦會感到不安,也不喜歡接觸陌生人...(下刪許多字)


當然我不是典型那種啦(bubu: 要是的話甭想我娶你回家!)...只是我不屬貪靚一族, 審美眼光偏低, 反而對電腦很迷, design的意慾旺盛, 滿腦子都是DIY的想頭 (註︰暫時仍只是想還未做)...

前陣子拍婚照大放血, 以致缺乏shopping能力, weekend都是少出街多在家...

所以勉強說是個變了種的「宅女」喔。嗚...我要擺脫污名, 做個出得廳堂入得全部其他房的bride-to-be, 最好財色兼收, 有彈藥敗家扮靚~


Tuesday, June 9, 2009

what to engrave?

(哪位師傅這麼厲害...刻了三行字!)


婚戒在四月中已買, 當時tiffany sales offer free engraving, 但未想到要刻些什麼在戒指上, 所以先把婚戒帶回家~


Schedule說今個星期五是engraving的deadline, 但我又覺得可能是自己mark錯 (我記得是三個月內, 但schedule mark的日子是兩個月...), 於是打電話去tiffany問...


一直serve我們的sales剛巧放假, 另一個sales忽然說現在不會offer free engraving !!! 之前答應了的也要在16 jun (next tue) 前拿去刻名...!!!


OMG! 我連內圈可刻多少個字都不知道! 我們的wedding band其實只有2mm wide, 可能只可刻簡單的...唯有明天一早再打去找那個sales...


臨急臨忙找來engraving的資料︰

Why Should You Engrave a Ring?
Your own wedding rings will become even more cherished when they are engraved with a message that's significant to you. It's never too late. You can engrave your wedding rings any time, before you're married or years afterwards.
A traditional inscription includes your names and wedding date, but you can be more creative with the engraving. Choose a special phrase--from a poem, from a song, from your time together, from religious writings--the choices are endless.

Size the Rings Before You Engrave
Make sure your rings are sized before they are engraved, especially if the phrase is long, because the letters could be damaged during the sizing procedure.

Hand Engraving
Hand engraving is done with a tool called a graver--think of it as a miniature chisel. The sharp, chisel ends of gravers are formed into different shapes that offer different looks for the text. Multiple shapes let engravers choose the best tool for the type of lettering you request.
Many experienced hand engravers are artisans who can put your inscription into any style of text you desire. Some engravers can even produce intricate symbols.Hand engravers sometimes prefer to work with gold rings, rather than platinum, since the softer gold has more "give" under the engraving tool. On the other hand, platinum doesn't wear away as easily as gold, so once it's there an inscription in platinum is usually more durable.


Machine Engraving
Machine engraving is accomplished with different types of power-driven engravers that work off of templates or computer aided designs. The jewelry is inserted in the machine and when turned on the machine forms the letters.
Machine engravers burrow into or spread the metal apart to create letters. Some machine engravers offer only block lettering, so be sure to ask about available options.

Before You Engrave a Ring
- Ask to see examples of a hand engraver's work. Ask the same of a company that produces machine engraving.
- Do the sample engravings appear to be fairly deep cuts (longer lasting) or shallow cuts (which will often wear away more easily)?
- Find out which type of lettering your jeweler feels will be most durable on a ring worn every day.
- Ask how long it takes to have the rings engraved to be sure there's time to complete the job before the wedding ceremony.
- Will rings be sent out for engraving, or is it done in-house? There's always a risk of loss when rings are sent out.
- Are the rings insured while in the jeweler's possession or when sent to another party for work?


Top 10 Engraving Ideas for Wedding Rings
Do you plan to engrave a personal message in your wedding rings? Have you thought about what the message will say? Engravings range from simple and traditional dates and initials to coded messages that only the brides and grooms understand. Here are a few engraving ideas from members of the About Jewelry & Accessories community.


1. Your Names and Wedding Date
For brides and grooms who prefer a classic approach, this engraving never goes out of fashion. There should be room for at least your first names, but you can use initials if space is tight. It might not matter to you now, but engraved names and dates can help someone who tackles family research in the future.


most probably, 但我總覺得刻日期好危險...



2. Forever
Forever.. a simple word with an important meaning. Wrap your intent to stay together always (there's another top engraving) around your finger, where you'll be reminded of it every day. You can include your initials and wedding date if you like.


與二人名字組個phrase都不錯, 但要度度...



3. Amor Vincit Omnia
Latin for "love conquers all." Engrave a message in Latin and few people will understand it, making the sentiment more personal to you and your spouse.


DAME! 我怕我們將來老了會忘記那段怪獸字究竟是什麼意思...



4. Phrase from a Song
Anything from "All you need is love," to "I got you, babe." What lyrics are meaningful to you? Are they short enough to engrave inside a wedding ring?



5. Nicknames
Brides and grooms sometimes engrave each other's nicknames inside their wedding rings.


我喜歡this idea! 因為我們都有可愛的花名~



6. A Religious Phrase
Choose a portion of a phrase or verse that's significant to your religion.



7. Symbols
A heart, the peace symbol, the symbol for eternity--many hand engravers can add a symbol to the inside of your wedding bands.



8. A Special Phrase
Choose a personal phrase, one that only you and your future spouse understand the meaning of. Go ahead, inscribe the phrase in your rings, let everyone guess its true meaning. And there's no reason why the phrases must match--each of you can choose a special sentiment.



9. Phrase from Your Wedding Vows
Engrave a few short words from your wedding vows. The phrase you choose might signify love, respect, trust, eternity--anything you want to convey to each other. Some couples let their sentiments float around the exterior of wedding bands. Adorn the outside of plain bands with a special engraving.

我們的vow可是中文哩...



10. Poetry and Literature
Words from any special poem or book, sentimental to comical. You're off to a good start. Now, before you choose an engraver, make a few decisions to help make sure that your engravings last forever.

這裡還有[爆多]phrases, 可參考一下, 見過最好笑的是 " PUT IT BACK ON!"

[TOUGHWOOD] 我有時在想啊, 很多人都會刻結婚日子, in case有什麼事要改婚期那怎麼辦...(至於要改新郎 / 新娘就...哈哈!)


大家都會刻些什麼啊?


one-take PASS!

野野野! 林七七考車成功, 一take過PASS~!


今日朝早本來都好地地, 一到晏晝就不停落雨...擔心死我啦...(七七話我其實係擔心佢考唔到要俾多幾千蚊再考過喎...俾佢踢爆左添 ^^)


好在, 雖然都有落D雨, 但係個考車師傅幾好人, 出面D車又讓下佢咁, 只係係九個「MINOR剔」之下完成路試~!


應該要賀一賀佢啦, 不過剛剛考完車又要仆返公司繼續做書展野, 好可憐喔...


Monday, June 8, 2009

阿Sa VS 余安安

        VS    



在上星期六的婚紗展, 唯一的收穫是「預防子宮頸癌疫苗」。在expo join, 有特價兼送一次子宮頸細胞(柏氏)抹片檢查, 好抵! 



已付了訂, 隨時可以打, 但我還未決定到打加衛苗(Gadasil) 還是卉妍康(Cervarix)。



加衛苗的好處是可額外預防HPV6,11型病毒引起的性病(椰菜花), 但效力方面, 現時臨床研究顯示約有五年, 未有研究報告指出有否需要打加強劑



卉妍康有說已出了第二代, 所以效力廷長至七、八年, 但不能預防椰菜花, 反而有預防另外兩種HPV病毒31,45



注射年齡︰OK, 兩隻都符合

危險性︰在外國, 兩隻都有「打完針要住醫院」的case...

個人喜好︰如果兩隻一模一樣, 我一定會支持阿Sa打加衛苗~哈

bubu意見︰打卉妍康, 因為我只有他一個, 他也只有我一個 (明不明白啊...)



上網有許多資料, 找了個給大家參考︰




子宮頸癌疫苗常見問題


子宮頸癌發生率的排名為全球女性癌症第二位,僅次於乳癌。世界衛生組織統計資料顯示,每一年均診斷出約500,000個子宮頸癌新案例,並約有232,000位女性死於子宮頸癌。也就是說,每兩分鐘就有一位女性死於這種危疾。子宮頸癌亦是香港女性最常見癌症第四位,根據香港衛生署資料顯示,於2005年共有376位女性被診斷出患有子宮頸癌,且有126位女性因子宮頸癌病發而死亡。


約七成子宮頸癌是因人類乳頭瘤狀病毒(HPV)16及18型病變引起,預防子宮頸癌疫苗能預防及減低患上子宮頸癌的風險。


什麼是子宮頸癌疫苗?


子宮頸癌疫苗能對抗由人類乳頭瘤狀病毒(HPV)所引發的疾病,如子宮頸癌、子宮頸細胞異常、生殖器官濕疣、陰道及外陰細胞異常。


現時多個國家已為年齡十二至十三歲女童提供免費子宮頸癌疫苗注射,其中包括美國、加拿大、澳洲及多個歐盟國家。這些國家之政府均嚴緊地評估子宮頸癌疫苗之安全性及其對預防子宮頸癌之功效。由於子宮頸癌是全球女性癌病的第二殺手,女性應主動及積極地保護自己及女兒,作出預防子宮頸癌之準備。


市面上有那些子宮頸癌疫苗?


現時市面上有兩種子宮頸癌疫苗,分別由默沙東藥廠研製之加衛苗及由葛蘭素史克藥廠研製之卉妍康。




































 


Gardasil


Cervarix


疫苗


加衛苗


卉妍康


藥廠


默沙東


葛蘭素史克


獨具配方


傳統鋁鹽


ASO4免疫力加強劑


適用年齡


9至26歲女性*















香港10至25歲女性*
澳門10至45歲女性
澳洲10至45歲女性
馬來西亞10至45歲女性



功效



  • 100%預防高危致癌的HPV16、18型

  • 可減低70%患上子宮頸癌的風險

  • 減低引致俗稱「椰菜花」的HPV6、11型的感染機會率



  • 100%預防高危致癌的HPV16、18型

  • 可減低70%患上子宮頸癌的風險

  • 減低另外兩種可引致子宮頸癌的HPV31、45 型的感染機會率

常見副作用


注射位置紅腫及痛、輕微發燒和頭痛


注射位置紅腫及痛、輕微發燒和頭痛,至今未有嚴重副作用紀錄


維持年期


抗體水平比較低,暫時未有可時需要加強劑指引


可持續提升抗體水平達至九倍及可維持六年半以上。有專家估計抗體可維持長達二十年以上。暫時未有可時需要加強劑指引


註* 各國的年齡指引有所不同,接受任何預防子宮頸癌疫苗前,請先向醫生查詢。



怎樣接種子宮頸癌疫苗?


女性需於六個月內接受三劑疫苗注射。理想地,疫苗應按以下時間注射︰




















 


加衛苗


卉妍康


第一劑︰


醫生和你所選擇的日期


醫生和你所選擇的日期


第二劑︰


第一劑後二個月


第一劑後一個月


第三劑︰


第一劑後六個月


第一劑後六個月



子宮頸癌疫苗有效嗎?


依據多數現有研究顯示,約70%的子宮頸癌個案是由於感染HPV第16、18型(疫苗可預防之型別),故預估HPV疫苗可預防約70%的子宮頸癌。另外,子宮頸癌疫苗(加衛苗)可以預防90%的尖形濕疣。但疫苗並無法治療已經感染人類乳頭瘤狀病毒者。


注射子宮頸癌疫苗安全嗎?


子宮頸癌疫苗疫苗已經過全球許多婦女的臨床研究,並通過美國食品藥物管理局審核。注射子宮頸癌疫苗所產生的副作用跟注射其他疫苗相近,目前並沒有發現嚴重的副作用。僅比較常見的是在接受注射的部位可能會有紅腫及疼痛。而少部份人仕會有輕微發燒、作嘔、暈眩或頭痛等情況。疫苗在特殊族群如懷孕婦女及免疫較差的病人之效果與安全性,仍持續研究中。


注射子宮頸癌疫苗後的保護作用可以維持多久?


一般而言,第一次研製的疫苗不可以準確地顯示該疫苗的保護作用可以維持多久。按照最近的研究結果,注射子宮頸癌疫苗後的保護作用至少可以維持四至五年。


在接受子宮頸癌疫苗注射前,女性需要接受檢查嗎?


不應以女性有否接受人類乳頭瘤狀病毒或柏氏抹片檢查而決定她們應否接受疫苗注射。這些檢查能顯示出她們是否染有人類乳頭瘤狀病毒,但並不能指出她們患有那種類型的人類乳頭瘤狀病毒。縱使女性染有類人類乳頭瘤狀病毒的其中一類,疫苗仍能為她們提供保障以預防感染到其餘的病毒。


懷孕婦女可以接受子宮頸癌疫苗注射嗎?


不建議懷孕及計畫懷孕之婦女接受子宮頸癌疫苗注射。若婦女注射後意外懷孕,則須停止注射並定期檢查疫苗對孕婦及胎兒的安全性,待生產結束後再繼續接受注射。


什麼時候最適宜接受子宮頸癌疫苗注射?


九歲女童已適合接受子宮頸癌疫苗注射。一般建議女性於有性經驗為前接受注射子宮頸癌疫苗,這樣疫苗可發揮最大功效,亦可更有效地減低女性患上子宮頸癌的風險。有很多國家已經開始推行子宮頸癌疫苗注射計劃,主要為年齡界乎十二至十三歲女童提供疫苗注射。


http://www.neohealth.com.hk/hk/vp-faq.html