post-wedding，除了可以有portraits，還可以有blues！
婚後看過一篇有關婚後檢查自己有否"post-wedding blues"的文章
只看首段我已經不停點頭︰係啊，係啊…
婚禮及蜜月之後，突然覺得時間很多，空閒得有點不習慣
望著以前寫得滿滿的calendar，現在空白一片，感覺很怪…
有時會覺得「得閒係唔岩，應該要忙」，好crazy！
有statements x 10，檢查自己的post-wedding blues有多嚴重吧…
1. You decide to turn your veil into a pretty lace curtain
＞無機會，因為頭紗不是self－owned
不過我有考慮過將原本佈置相簿檯的table linen拿去舖家裡的餐檯…
2. You answer questions with “I do” instead of “yes”
＞又不至於，始終「我願意」不是隨隨便便就說的
如果忽然讓bubu聽到我對其他男人說「我願意」那還得了？
3. Your new favorite hobby is watching your wedding video on repeat
＞絕對是，不過肯定會被話「又睇？」
上次姊妹來拜年，又藉機看多了一遍…
4. You’ll no longer leave the house without something old, new, borrowed and blue
＞當時已經沒做足「舊新借藍」，不適用
5. You host a dinner party re-creating the food at your reception, giving the option of chicken, fish or steak
＞我家沒可能弄得出婚宴菜餚啦
反而每每與出席婚宴的朋友見面就會問︰個回禮小禮物有無食呀？好唔好食呢？
6. You’re planning the weddings of everyone you know who’s had a significant other for more than a month
＞對朋友的婚禮比以前更上心，有時更加會「皇帝唔急太監急」
不停提醒朋友要盡快book mua…
7. You now call all of your vacations “honeymoons,” including when you’re just going home to see your parents for a few days
＞honeymoon對我來說真的是婚後一個romantic ＆ relaxing trip，其他的都不是
可是一兩年前開始，我們每次去旅行都已經remark "honeymoon"
以務求有更多special offer，典型貪心的小狗…
8. You order your signature cocktail when out at your favorite bar—never mind that the “Lovetini” isn’t exactly on the menu
＞香港中式婚宴只有無生果的fruit punch啦，不適用
只是仍繼續欣賞婚禮用過的字型，重看婚禮rundown…
9. You buy the chic paper lanterns you see at a flea market because they would’ve been just perfect for your cocktail hour
＞best of all statements！無時無刻都會！
到現在一見到「靚野」仍然會想心思思買，會幻想如何用…
10. You invite your bridesmaids over for a “wear your wedding dress” party and play all the music from your reception
＞如果姊妹不介意我很願意，電腦裡已經有wedding song playlist，隨時ready
或者大家帶自己儲落的姊妹裙來個bridesmaid dress show都可以啊…
已婚的你又覺得自己嚴重嘛？
clipped from《10 Signs You've Got the Postwedding Blues》
the nest, 8 january 2011
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