A Groom's Tasks
These are the groom's traditional responsibilities, but each couple should determine appropriate additions and omissions.
The Guest List: The groom is responsible for compiling his side of the guest list. It is best for the groom to make a longer list first and then trim it later with the bride to work within the budget.
Wedding Bands: Choosing the wedding bands is something the bride and groom should do together. Wedding bands can be matching or have a matching engraving. Some couples have their initials engraved with the wedding date inside the ring, while others choose a phrase from a favorite poem.
Marriage License and Blood Test: The groom is traditionally responsible for making the appointment to get the marriage license, arranging for the blood test (if required), and calling the marriage-license bureau of the local government where the marriage will take place to find out what must be done and how far in advance.
Transportation: The groom is responsible for arranging transportation to and from the ceremony and away from the reception. This search should begin at least four months before the wedding. All contracts should state the cost, length of service, and the driver's attire.
Toasts: The groom often gives a toast toward the end of the rehearsal dinner in response to the best man's toast. It is customary for the groom to express his good fortune at marrying his bride, as well as thank his parents, in-laws, and the guests for coming.
Wedding Night Accommodations: If the couple is not leaving directly after the wedding for their honeymoon, the groom should arrange for accommodations for the wedding night.
Honeymoon: Today, couples usually decide together where to go for the honeymoon, but tradition still makes the groom responsible for much of the planning. The groom then has the opportunity to work in some surprises, such as flight upgrades or special excursions and activities.
除了wedding band (這個倒是他很早就主動提議先做!), 其他的...umm...我還是自己制定一個適合他的好了...
後記︰bubu說要澄清一下, 他是有幫上忙的...我認真的在想, 他有時也會自己去刨esdlife, 發現筍野會第一時間告訴我, 拍婚照前也會狂找reference photos...但都只是看啦, 最後還是我clip下來...
男人選的..最後都要問過身邊果位ok了才做...so....大多女性都research果個....相信到最後選歌果個都係你..hahaha
ReplyDelete[版主回覆06/20/2009 13:24:00]一定係啦, 連最後CUT歌編曲燒碟都一定係我~